Is it a situationship, or am I overthinking it?
Straight answers about dating in your twenties. No hacks, no rules, no pretending you didn't reread the text nine times.
Tue 11:48 PM
haha yeah we should def hang soon
been so busy lately
totally. thursday?
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Questions we answer
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Full reading list →Dating nowPew Research Center, 2023
The who, where and why of online dating in the U.S. (opens pewresearch.org)Survey numbers on who uses dating apps, which ones, and why, with a close look at adults under 30.
Brutal breakupNPR (Life Kit), 2020
The art of breaking up, from 'the talk' to moving on (opens npr.org)Practical guidance on ending things kindly and on what helps in the weeks after.
Apps and textingNPR, 2024
Our quest for romance through dating apps is only making us lonelier, studies find (opens npr.org)Reports on studies linking heavy app use to loneliness, useful if swiping has started to feel worse than not dating.
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