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Real people, with public profiles we checked and the date we checked them. A label says where someone's authority comes from. It is not a ranking and not an endorsement, and nobody pays to be listed.

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Credentialed sources

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Alexandra H. Solomon

Relational self awareness, dating and building lasting relationships, drawn from her couples work and her Northwestern course.

Licensed clinical psychologist; adjunct professor, School of Education and Social Policy, Northwestern University · credential source

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Justin J. Lehmiller

Research on sex, desire, casual relationships and friends with benefits.

Social psychologist (PhD, Purdue); Senior Research Fellow, The Kinsey Institute, Indiana University · credential source

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Nedra Glover Tawwab

Boundaries in relationships, family and friendship, and how to say what you need.

Licensed therapist; founder of Kaleidoscope Counseling · credential source

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Ramani Durvasula

Narcissistic and high conflict relationships, and recovering after leaving one.

Licensed clinical psychologist; Professor Emerita of Psychology, California State University, Los Angeles · credential source

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

Trending voices

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Blaine Anderson

Dating coach for men who talks about dating app profiles, first dates, and how women experience modern dating.

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Matthew Hussey

Dating and love life advice on raising your standards, confidence, and finding a partner, through his podcast, books and videos.

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Sabrina Zohar

Dating and relationship coach and podcast host who talks about anxious attachment, self-worth, and breaking repeating relationship patterns.

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Shan Boodram

Intimacy educator, author and podcast host who talks about dating, sex, desire, and building close relationships.

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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